FAQs

Passing Fancies is a genre unto itself. Prepare for true freedom with an open bar, no phones, and a safe environment to explore whatever desires occur to you in each moment.

There is a constant ebb and flow between the dance floor, smoking room and dungeon to create a libertine atmosphere that extends beyond the bedroom and creates an experience of complete escapism and hedonism.

We always invite performers to our parties - some paid, some just friends (try keeping some of our house Dommes away from the dungeon)! Body painters, sketch artists and dommes are present at all parties, while aerial fetish acts and indoor fire breathers are just some of the things we have thought of in the past - feel free to message in with suggestions for things you’d like to see in future.

Our Cabaret nights are a great first taste. Get to know your hosts, see the venue we host all our parties in, and meet the regular crowd against the backdrop of some incredible performances.

We have 12 acts over the course of a few hours on a Friday night, with past performances including UV paint shows, Angle grinding, and an underwater shibari act where the submissive must untie herself before she can escape the water! This night is like a wilder, less commercial version of The Box, and people tend to wear jackets / dresses. There is no formal play area as it is more like our version of a social, but we won’t be checking the alcoves…

This is subject to our discretion and depends on the capacity for a particular date and how early you purchase — get in touch over email (events@passingfancies.co.uk) and we can let you know. Feel free to get in touch for group discounts too.

We aim to respond to all requests in 72 hours. Attendance is only confirmed once payment has been completed.

Of course. We love to meet new people who share our values. You’ll just need to attend with a friend who is a member already. Make sure you come say hi if it’s your first time!

Our events are private parties so will always run all night. This is usually from 11pm - late (c. 6am), but we’ll release exact timings with each event invitation.

Making an effort is absolutely essential for all genders. We want to create a sense of escapism from the mundane at our parties - this is a lot harder when people turn up in their work suit or a t-shirt and jeans.

Parties are themed - past themes include Carnival, Shagadelic!, and Blade Runner. In addition to any theme Latex, Leather, Fur & Feather are always welcomed, as well as anything else sexy you can think of... nice lingerie never goes amiss (one of your hosts will gladly confess to even loving the sight of a man in lingerie!)

Our mailing list is completely private and will never be shared with anyone. You have the complete right to withdraw your details at any time and they will be completely erased.

At the parties, we strictly do not allow photography, and all phones must be checked into our cloakroom on arrival. This is to ensure that no pictures are taken, and you can be fully present as your wildest self. Anyone found to have taken a phone inside will be immediately removed from the venue and barred from all future events.

If you want a way to remember your night, we will have a sketch artist all night taking drawings of you in the heat of the action which you are welcome to take as a keepsake.

Our playroom is one of the best equipped party playrooms around! You will beds and sofas, as well as a range of more esoteric equipment such as crosses, swings, benches & more!

There will also be plenty of toys to explore with, as well as condoms/lube. You are more than welcome to bring anything you think might be fun!